There’s a version of this story that happens in a lot of households. One parent does the dishes. The other parent notices the dishwasher needs rinse aid, remembers the pediatrician appointment needs rescheduling, realizes the school forms are due Friday, and mentally files that the babysitter hasn’t been paid yet. The one who did the dishes gets credit for helping. The one who held all of that in their head — tracking, planning, anticipating, remembering — is just called “organized.” That second job is the mental load of motherhood. And if you’ve been feeling exhausted in a way that doesn’t…